(originally published November 10, 2017, updated January 12, 2023 ) Communicating well in everyday run-of-the-mill conversations can be difficult for ADHD adults. I wrote about this in the two previous articles, ADHD Adults Communicate Better Using These 7 Listening Tips and 5 Strategies You Need to Use to Be Better Understood in Conversations. But you will need a different skill set to handle crucial conversations. These are conversations where the stakes are high, opinions vary, and emotions run strong, according to authors… Continue reading…
Part 2 – 5 Strategies You Need to Use to Be Better Understood in Conversations
(originally published September 18, 2015, updated December 12, 2022 ) In my previous post, Part 1 – ADHD Adults Communicate Better Using These 7 Listening Tips, I explored some of the challenges you may have listening well. And suggested strategies you could use to listen better. But, if you’re interested in communicating better, you likely also want to learn how to improve your ability to convey your thoughts. And, as true with listening, your ADHD… Continue reading…
Part 1 – ADHD Adults Communicate Better Using These 7 Listening Tips
(originally published June 17, 2020, updated November 14, 2022 ) I know you have read and so know quite a bit about communication, including how to listen better. Yet, despite having all this information, you may still be struggling to implement it in a way that helps you communicate the way you want. So now you are wondering, “Am I just unable to listen and communicate well?!” That may be the case right now. But,… Continue reading…
ADHD and Email Part 3 – How to Make Writing Emails Easier
In Part 1 of this series, I focused on the preparation needed to process your email. Then, in Part 2, I guided you through the steps of doing the processing. So, if you have not read those, yet, check them out, and then come back here. In this post, Part 3, we’ll tackle, perhaps, the most difficult aspect of emails. Writing those that need time, energy and thoughtfulness to craft. For a few reasons,… Continue reading…
ADHD and Tips for Managing Holiday Stress
Whether you celebrate an upcoming winter holiday or not you will likely feel their impact as you go about your professional and personal business. And, while the holiday season may look different for everyone, it is likely you will share some of the same challenges with other adults with ADHD, such as: dealing with the transitions brought on by the different work schedules of you and your colleagues. planning for the holidays. making… Continue reading…
ADHD and Communication 101 – Listening
It might seem listening should be easy. After all it seems like a pretty passive activity, right? But in reality fully processing and understanding what somebody is saying to you isn’t always easy, especially for Adults with ADHD. Sometimes it is… hard… really hard. Sure, if you don’t care much about what the person is saying, you could get away with, “Uh ah, right, yes, sure…” And be on your way. But what about those… Continue reading…
Conversations & ADHD Part 2: Is Your Anger In The Driver’s Seat?
In Conversations & ADHD Part 1: Do They Feel Like Battlefields?, I wrote about conversations that, while they may feel like they are full of conflict, may in fact just be exchanges of different ideas. But how about when there is genuine conflict between you and others? How do you maximize the chances of constructively engaging with them while: keeping the conversation from becoming hurtful for any of the parties involved? not retreating… Continue reading…
Conversations & ADHD Part 1: Do They Feel Like Battlefields?
Can you think of a recent time when you were uncomfortable initiating a conversation or bringing up a subject because you thought there might be some sort disagreement? How did you feel and what did you do? For most people the answer is, “Well, sure, they are not my favorite kind of conversations, and sometimes I try to avoid them. But they are just part of life…” But for adults with ADHD the answer may… Continue reading…
Are You An Adult With ADHD And Feeling Isolated?
Of course, feeling like you are the only one that _________ (fill in the blank) can also leave you feeling misunderstood and alone. As an adult with ADHD you may sometimes feel this way about having ADHD. If you feel this way, you know when you are connected to others (friends, family, colleagues and acquaintances) who “get and accept you,” you just feel better, right? But have you thought about the importance of your connections… Continue reading…
ADHD and Friendships: Are You Tending To Yours?
We all know that you need to tend to your garden, if you want your plants to thrive. You need to water, weed, remove some if they are crowded, etc. And it is no different with relationships. If you want to have thriving, healthy relationships, you need to be mindful and tend to those that are important to you. You already know this. And maybe this is what you want. But you may not have… Continue reading…