{"id":12233,"date":"2017-07-10T18:38:36","date_gmt":"2017-07-10T18:38:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/?p=12233"},"modified":"2025-06-18T12:26:57","modified_gmt":"2025-06-18T16:26:57","slug":"adhd-adults-fix-love-hate-relationship-routines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/adhd-adults-fix-love-hate-relationship-routines\/","title":{"rendered":"How ADHD Adults Fix Their Love-Hate Relationship with Routines"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ve probably heard time and time again that adding structure to your life can help you manage your ADHD and keep you from floundering \u2014 doing whatever catches your attention in the moment. It\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, if you are like many adults with ADHD, when you think of adding structure to your life you probably think, \u201cI definitely need to do that! And I\u2019ve tried\u2026 It just always seems to fall part.\u201d So, you resist doing so because, well, it is just too hard and never seems to work.<\/p>\n<p>And you continue to waver between wanting structure and resisting it. Makes sense.<\/p>\n<p>Read on below to learn more about structure and how you can successfully add just enough to help you work with your ADHD.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Are Routines For ADHD Adults So Important?<\/h2>\n<p>From your own experience as an adult with ADHD, I bet you already know you don\u2019t have a highly organized internal sense of structure, which can lead you to be easily distracted, impulsive and unable to tolerate boredom. And this makes it difficult to reach your goals, right?<\/p>\n<p>Structure is critical to being successful as it makes it easier for you to perform everything from daily chores to demanding work projects by <strong>creating the order that does not come naturally.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And, while some general structures I cover below are necessary for everyone, the exact kind you choose will depend on your needs and preferences. So, remember, not every good idea is the right one for you! As you read on, think about what you need and <strong>start with one idea<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<h2>Why Do Adults with ADHD Resist Structure?<\/h2>\n<p>So, if structure is so good for you, why might you resist it so mightily? While I\u2019m sure there are other reasons, <strong>one reason<\/strong> for your resistance is <strong>your ADHD<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Because of your ADHD, you may:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>find it difficult to persist and maintain interest in a routine.<\/li>\n<li>get overwhelmed and give up easily because you have challenges managing your emotions.<\/li>\n<li>literally forget your commitment to the routine because of your memory challenges.<\/li>\n<li>switch gears suddenly because of your impulsiveness.<\/li>\n<li>get distracted by all the other stimuli in your environment and just not start.<\/li>\n<li>seek out novelty at the expense of routine.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I know it sounds a <strong>bit like a Catch 22<\/strong>. Adding structure will help you manage your ADHD and your ADHD makes it hard to add structure. Argh!!<\/p>\n<p>The good news is, once you know more about these <strong>challenges<\/strong>, you can <strong>address them<\/strong> so you can successfully build the structures that will help you build the <strong>bridge<\/strong> between your <strong>intentions <\/strong>and the <strong>finish line<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ready?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>#1 \u2013 Use These 2 Must-Have Tools to Create a Solid Foundation<\/h2>\n<p>One of the places to start is adopting and learning how to use both a calendar and a task manager.<\/p>\n<p>You already know you need a calendar to be able to <strong>see your commitments<\/strong> <strong>over time.<\/strong> But I bet you are not using it as effectively as you could. Check out <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/adhd-calendars-plan\/\">ADHD and Calendars \u2013 What Is Your Plan?<\/a> to learn what mistakes you might be making and how to correct them.<\/p>\n<p>You also might not be capturing your tasks effectively. Maybe you are keeping some or even most <strong>tasks<\/strong> in your head. And, if this is true for you, you might be overwhelmed and anxious because you don\u2019t know what you need to do or when and how you are going follow though.<\/p>\n<p>To have a better sense of your tasks and <strong>create an execution plan<\/strong> you need a <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/why-adults-with-adhd-need-a-task-manager\/\">task manager<\/a>. What <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/it-doesnt-matter-where-you-keep-your-task-list\/\">kind of task manager<\/a> you choose will be dependent on your needs and preferences. It really doesn\u2019t matter as long it works for you.<\/p>\n<p>Using these 2 must-have tools well enough will help you as you add more structures.<\/p>\n<h2>#2 &#8211; Create Habits for Routine Work<\/h2>\n<p>In addition to certain tools, habits are key to helping your follow through.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, there is nothing wrong with doing a task when the mood strikes you, if this is working for you. Because, as an adult with ADHD, leveraging your moods is a great strategy. But, when this does not work, it is time for plan \u201cB\u201d \u2013 building habits.<\/p>\n<p>Without habits for routine tasks, thoughts of the tasks will take up your psychic energy and continue to overwhelm you because you don\u2019t know when you are going to do them.<\/p>\n<p>Think about what you <strong>need to do on a regular basis<\/strong> but are neglecting. It might be exercising, writing, processing your email, planning, etc. While you keep on saying, \u201cI need to\u2026,\u201d you continue to put it off. Incorporating the structure of <strong>habits can helps you<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>to <strong>focus<\/strong> your attention.<\/li>\n<li><strong>get started<\/strong>, as the habit becomes like a magnet, pulling you forward.<\/li>\n<li><strong>remember<\/strong> your intentions.<\/li>\n<li><strong>persist <\/strong>as the task becomes automatic.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Yet, I know building habits is hard!<\/p>\n<h2>How to Make Building Habits Easier<\/h2>\n<p>The strategies below will make it easier to adopt the habits you choose. Take a moment right now to <strong>think of a habit<\/strong> you would like to adopt. Got it? Ok, as you <strong>read each tip <\/strong>and Zev&#8217;s examples, consider how you might <strong>use\u00a0the tip\u00a0to create your habit<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Zev really wanted to start a habit of <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/the-adhd-adults-guide-to-the-weekly-review\/\">weekly planning<\/a> on Friday mornings. But he kept skipping it in favor of his old habit of getting coffee in the breakroom and chatting with colleagues.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">1. Figure out what <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/the-key-adhd-adults-need-to-adopt-habits-faster\/\">decisions you could make in critical moments<\/a> that could <strong>support<\/strong> your efforts to <strong>drop an old habit that is not working for you and adopt your new habit.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Zev decided not to go to the break room on Friday mornings because it was too hard to resist being pulled into\u00a0conversations. Instead, he bought coffee on the way to work, went right to his office, and after planning stopped by the breakroom to chat.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2.<a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/motivation-is-not-the-key-to-success-adhd\/\">\u00a0Create a warm-up routine<\/a> to make it easier to get started<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">For Zev, it was simply stopping to get coffee on his way to work on Fridays, instead of going to the break room. It was a break in his normal routine and his cue that it was time to do his weekly planning.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">3. Start with something so <strong>small and doable<\/strong> you can do it for sure.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">In trying to build the habit of <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/the-adhd-adults-guide-to-the-weekly-review\/\">weekly planning<\/a>, Zev started by only reviewing upcoming and previous calendar items (Step 2)<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">4. Link a new habit with an old habit to make it easier to follow through.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">5. Be compassionate and patient with yourself. Allow for imperfection. Think more of <strong>progress<\/strong> than perfection.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">6. <strong>Acknowledge successes<\/strong>. Remind yourself of what you are doing right despite the challenges.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">7. Think of it as an <strong>experiment<\/strong>, and be curious about the results. Tweak the habit as you go along until it works for you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">8.\u00a0Enlist the help of an <strong>accountability partner<\/strong>. Schedule phone check-ins with a friend who would also like accountability.<\/p>\n<p>Can you think of other tips that will make adopting habits easier?<\/p>\n<h2>#3 Schedule Time to Work on Projects<\/h2>\n<p>How about those projects sitting on the back burner that don\u2019t lend themselves to a routine? When they do come to mind you think, \u201cI really need to work on that!\u201d But you don\u2019t, and continue worrying about them.<\/p>\n<p>One way to ensure you will make headway on your most important projects (MIPs) is during your <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/the-adhd-adults-guide-to-the-weekly-review\/\">weekly review\u00a0<\/a> <strong>schedule\u00a0when you are going to\u00a0work on them. <\/strong>I know this is not easy to follow through on when you are only accountable to yourself, right?<\/p>\n<p>The 3 strategies below can make it easier to honor the time you put on your calendar.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you dread the prospect of working on the project, <strong>schedule 30 minutes blocks<\/strong> of time to start. Knowing you only need to work on it for a short amount of time may make it\u00a0seem less daunting.<\/li>\n<li>Use <strong>self-talk <\/strong>to remind yourself in the moment why it is useful to work on the project. \u201cIf I put in some time now, I will be that much further along and can stop worrying about when I am going to work on it.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Check in with an <a href=\"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/accountability-partnerships-adults-with-adhd\/\">accountability partner<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And, of course, <strong>trust that it is time well spent<\/strong> even if the project is not due for a while and you have so much else to do.<\/p>\n<h2>Next Step for You<\/h2>\n<p>Imposing too much structure on yourself will inevitably lead to resentment and resistance. 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