{"id":819,"date":"2009-07-11T07:59:36","date_gmt":"2009-07-11T11:59:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/?p=819"},"modified":"2025-05-14T16:29:52","modified_gmt":"2025-05-14T20:29:52","slug":"adhd-and-doing-it-your-own-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/marlacummins.com\/stage2026\/adhd-and-doing-it-your-own-way\/","title":{"rendered":"AD\/HD and Doing It Your Own Way&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"ADHD Symptoms\" class=\"aligncenter\" height=\"160\" src=\"http:\/\/i1187.photobucket.com\/albums\/z386\/marlacummins\/Business\/Blog%20Images\/240072417_e23874194e_m.jpg\" title=\"ADHD Symptoms\" width=\"240\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The quote below, which was sent to me from a client, serves a powerful reminder of the power of perseverance, as well as the need to find your own way to accomplish what is important to you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 60px;\"><em>&#8230;every now and then even streams and rivers have incredibly tough obstacles between their starting points and where they want to meander (like mountains!) but over the years they just keep on chipping away and turning and finding other ingenious ways to access where they&#39;re going. So I&#39;m not fluid like an established flowing river, but I&#39;m slowly carving out a crooked sort of flow&#8230; Ok off to do some eroding. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>As the above quote suggest, by taking into consideration your areas of weakness and strength in designing the most effective ways to operate, you can significantly increase your chances of success.<\/p>\n<p>It is important to acknowledging the impact of your ADHD, as this will give you the information you need to create an appropriate plan that will work with your ADHD, and not against it. As part of this plan, you can identify your strengths and other strategies to minimize the impact of your challenges. In addition, you will know which resources will be the most helpful in your effort to reach your goal(s).<\/p>\n<p>So, if the way you are operating now is not working, please, don&#39;t continue to do it the same way. Figure out what is getting in your way and what to do about it.<\/p>\n<p>Below is an adaptation of Thomas Brown&#39;s Model of Executive Functions Impaired in ADHD. As you take a closer look at this model, consider how your own ADHD symptoms manifest themselves and hinder your ability to reach your goals<\/p>\n<p>While this is by no means comprehensive in its scope, my intent in this section is to highlight some of the ways that ADHD may be impacting your functioning. It would be impossible to address everyone&#39;s challenges in format like this as everyone has a unique makeup, including possible comorbid disorders.<\/p>\n<p>The importance for you of being aware of your own ADHD related traits cannot be overstated. It is only with this awareness that you will be able to identify and create strategies to deal with these in order to reach your goals.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<table border=\"1\" cellpadding=\"0\" cellspacing=\"0\" class=\"MsoTableGrid\" style=\"width: 100%; border-collapse: collapse;\" width=\"100%\">\n<tbody>\n<tr style=\"mso-yfti-irow: 0; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes;\">\n<td style=\"border: 1pt solid black; padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 1.7in; background-color: transparent;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"163\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: maroon; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">Executive Function Used<\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 2in; background-color: transparent; border: 1pt 1pt 1pt medium solid solid solid none black black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"192\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: maroon; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">Areas of Challenges<\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 54.2pt; background-color: transparent; border: 1pt 1pt 1pt medium solid solid solid none black black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"72\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; color: maroon; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">Strategies<\/span><\/strong><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"mso-yfti-irow: 1;\">\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 1.7in; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt none solid solid #d4d0c8 black black;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"163\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">Activation:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\"> Organizing, Prioritizing &amp; Activating to Work<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\"> <\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 2in; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt medium none solid solid none #d4d0c8 black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"192\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Lack plan to meet goals<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Knowing the best order of strategies to reach goal<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Being able to start and knowing where to start<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 54.2pt; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt medium none solid solid none #d4d0c8 black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"72\">&nbsp;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"mso-yfti-irow: 2;\">\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 1.7in; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt none solid solid #d4d0c8 black black;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"163\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">Focus:<\/span><\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\"> Focusing. Sustaining Focus, &amp; Shifting Focus to Tasks<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 2in; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt medium none solid solid none #d4d0c8 black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"192\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Staying on task<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Persisting with tasks<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 12pt; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;;\">-Shifting from one task to another<\/span><\/td>\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 54.2pt; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt medium none solid solid none #d4d0c8 black black #d4d0c8;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"72\">&nbsp;<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr style=\"mso-yfti-irow: 3;\">\n<td style=\"padding: 0in 5.4pt; width: 1.7in; background-color: transparent; border: medium 1pt 1pt none solid solid #d4d0c8 black black;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"163\"><strong style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12pt; 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