Tools and systems for planning ahead, setting priorities, and adapting your plans when life gets messy — ADHD-style.
I tried to think of any rules I always follow or would follow given various contexts. And I really could not think of one — not one rule. Always stop at red lights, maybe? That seems like one everyone would follow. But what if you were taking someone to the emergency room? Are there any…
You stop to get coffee on the way to work. You get there — ok, maybe a little later than you planned. But you are ready to start the day! You look at your calendar, see you have a 1:00 meeting and think, “Good, plenty of time to get ready for that.” Then, if you…
If you are reading this article, it is because you were enticed by the prospect of learning how to stop procrastinating. Like many people I work with you’ve tried seemly everything under the sun to follow through, to little avail. So, at this point, you may assume that, left to your own devices, you are…
“I know what I need to do and I want to do it. It is important to me, really. But I’m not doing it, at least not consistently. And I’ve tried…everything I can think of!” Sound familiar? And people in your circle who are neurotypical, which may include your spouse, friends, colleagues and boss…
I’m not going to tell you planning is not important. After all, I help people both plan and learn the skills needed to plan. But too much planning can definitely get in your way, and sometimes it makes sense to just start. Now you are wondering, “When is planning too much? When should I plan…
Decisions about where to put your tasks so you can remember and manage them can be confusing for many adults with ADHD. But, of course, you want to figure this out. Because you want it to be easier to manage and complete your important work. If you’re currently trying to keep tasks in your head,…
In my last post, I suggested using David Allen’s Six Level Model as a starting point for answering the question, “What work should I do?” And, if you’ve used this model before, you may have had an easier time answering the questions at the higher levels than at the 10,000 foot and runway levels….
One of the biggest challenges for many adults with ADHD when it comes to executing is deciding what work to do. Ideally, what work you decide to do is dictated by your priorities. And your priorities come from knowing what is important to you. But for many adults with ADHD, an inordinate amount of…
You may find yourself reticent to adopting rules and structure for yourself because doing so may feel like it, well, just hems you in. For adults with ADHD too much structure can feel stifling, to be sure. And imposing the wrong kind of structure certainly may get in the way of your creative process. But…
“Seems like a lot of work. Maybe I’m tired–it’s getting late–but I’d like things to be easier not harder. I feel I’ll never catch-up. Maybe that’s where I’m stuck – Does it matter?” I received this comment in response to a recent article, 5 Steps To Working With Your ADHD – Without The Struggle….