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Managing Your ADHD At Work
ByMarla Cummins September 21, 2011May 14, 2025 ADHD in the Workplace, Blog

Of course, everyone has challenges at work. However, as an adult with ADHD, you may have greater struggles than your colleagues with issues, like: details and instructions communication follow-through getting places on time stopping and starting tasks There are steps I have outlined below that you can take to address these challenges and create a better work environment for yourself. To cover the widest range of applicable topics, this article is a mix of new writing and links to a few of my old articles. Getting To Work On Time: Getting to work on time sets the stage for the rest of your day. So, if this is one of your challenges, check out Are You Tired of Being Late. Motivation Maybe…

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ADHD, Mindfulness and Making Decisions
ByMarla Cummins August 25, 2011June 26, 2025 Blog

“How do I respond to this situation?” “How can I feel less overwhelmed?” “Where do I want to focus my mental energy/thoughts?” These are some of the questions that Adults with ADHD ask themselves on a regular basis. Having strategies that will allow you to slow down and center yourself are helpful in answering these and similar questions. ADHD and The Wandering Mind As an adult with ADHD you know that your challenge is not inattention. If anything you have a surplus of attention. The challenge when you have ADHD is being able to regulate your attention, as well as your actions, thoughts and emotions. That is, being able to make a decision about what to do in any given moment. Without a system for…

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Are You Getting The Feedback You Need?
ByMarla Cummins March 17, 2011May 14, 2025 ADHD Tools & Strategies, Blog

I have had prospects and new clients say to me that they wish they had known about ADD Coaching sooner. When I heard this again, recently, I began thinking about the usefulness of mirrors. Of course, in the most literal sense, most of us are glad that we have them to save us from the embarrassment of going out in public with spinach still in our teeth or toothpaste on the corner of our mouth. But for many with ADHD, having different types of “mirrors” also provides us with the tools we need to manage our challenges Getting the Feedback You Need For example, it is not always easy to figure out what is going on when you procrastinate. Are you resisting doing an…

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ADHD and Electronics: Should You Pull the Plug?
ByMarla Cummins March 10, 2011May 14, 2025 ADHD Time Management, ADHD Treatment Options, Blog

For a long time I did not watch TV at all. Then I discovered Hulu and Netflix… Sometimes, I admit, I watch too much TV, especially during the winter months. I’ll even multitask – checking email and watching a show. Mostly, I watch TV as a way to relax and turn off my brain. Is this ok? Exploring an Opinion What is the impact of electronic use by children and adults with ADHD? Last week Pierre de Villiers emailed me the comments below and asked me to respond. Since I thought my response would be of interest to many of you, with his permission, I decided to answer it in a public forum. While Pierre’s comments are about children, the issues he raises are also…

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ADD – ADHD: Do You Know This Strategy to Prevent Overwhelm?
ByMarla Cummins March 3, 2011June 15, 2025 ADHD Symptoms & Diagnosis, ADHD Time Management, ADHD Tools & Strategies, Blog

What Do You Want To Say “Yes” To? Being self employed and a single parent of a middle school age daughter, my life is full and can be overwhelming, sometimes. While I am certainly blessed to be a parent and to have my own business, I still find myself occasionally wanting to do more, and feeling like I “can’t.” There are times, lately, when I struggle with the “need” to say no to other opportunities. Then I remind myself that I could say “yes,” instead, if I made different choices. I remind myself that every choice has a cost. Recently, I’ve been feeling isolated in my business. So, I have been thinking of ways to connect with other people professionally. Like many with ADD –…

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ADD – ADHD: Are You Tired of Being Late?
ByMarla Cummins February 24, 2011June 9, 2025 Blog

I remember when I was in college. Every morning I would run down the stairs from our second floor apartment, racing to get to class on time. And then, as soon as my feet hit the sidewalk, I would remember whatever it was I had forgotten that day. Then I would race back up the stairs, whereupon I would hear my roommates call out: What did you forget, now? At the time it did not feel shameful, it was more of a joke. But it did make me anxious about getting to class on time. Since then I’ve learned how to plan ahead. Oh, I still forget things, of course. But now, when I get into my car, the times that I am running back…

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ADD and Anger: Is It Getting In Your Way?
ByMarla Cummins February 17, 2011May 14, 2025 ADHD Communication, ADHD Symptoms & Diagnosis, ADHD Tools & Strategies, Blog

One of the hallmark symptoms of ADD is the struggle with managing emotions, such as anger. If you answer yes to the questions below, your anger may be getting in your way. Do you tend to wear your emotions on your sleeve, but would rather not? Do you go from 0-100 mph in a split second and wonder how you got there so fast? Do you become frustrated with others easily, and then regret it later? You are not alone What Is The Problem? Dr. Russell Barkley, a foremost authority on ADD and author of the book Taking Charge of Adult ADHD, notes the following: “It is not that the emotions they experience are inappropriate, but that those with ADHD are more likely to publicly…

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You Made The Changes… Now What?!
ByMarla Cummins February 10, 2011June 26, 2025 ADHD Symptoms & Diagnosis, ADHD Treatment Options, Blog

In the article Understanding and Managing Your ADD: Change Can Happen…., I introduced the Six Stages of Change. I explored this model further in the article Managing Your ADD Takes Time and Planning. If you have not already, I suggest reading both of these before continuing. Stage 5 – Maintenance When you reach the Maintenance Stage, you have already put a great deal of emotional and mental energy into making the commitment to managing your ADD and have also put a plan into action. So, you are likely feeling pretty spent! Even if you had more energy, you may question doing more. “What more could I possibly need to do? I put the ‘pedal to the metal’; my plan is in action.” Yet, it is…

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Managing Your ADHD Takes Time and Planning
ByMarla Cummins February 4, 2011June 26, 2025 ADHD Tools & Strategies, ADHD Treatment Options, Blog

I introduced the Six Stages of Change in the previous article, Understanding and Managing Your ADD: Change Can Happen…. If you haven’t read it yet, I suggest you read it before continuing. Then read on to continue learning about the Stages of Change. Can You See Choices. Everyday, we make choices. Depending on the circumstances, we are more or less conscious of the implications of our daily decisions. Sometimes, we have no idea of what may follow from a seemingly inconsequential decision, like Gwyneth Paltrow’s decision to take one train over another in the movie Sliding Doors. It is true. Sometimes, we make choices in the moment, and we have no idea what could follow from that decision. We decide to go to a restaurant…

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ADD and The Disappearing Mojo: What Do You Do?!
ByMarla Cummins January 21, 2011May 14, 2025 ADHD Symptoms & Diagnosis, ADHD Time Management, ADHD Tools & Strategies, Blog

I’ve been pondering, lately, how creating structures to help you follow through and complete important tasks can sometimes seem futile. When you have ADD, creating lists, setting deadlines, making schedules, and breaking down tasks into smaller steps is critical to your success. So, when you have these in place, it can seem absolutely maddening when it feels like you are still spinning your wheels on those days you just don’t have the energy. If this is the case for you, you may be missing a piece of the puzzle. Knowing Yourself I like my work. But sometimes, when I wake up, I have no motivation. Zip. Zero. Nada. Even though mornings are my supposed good time, I have acknowledged that I will have these days…

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