This past week, I was given some unsolicited parenting advice from someone that I do not know well. Now you may think that this post is going to be about my response to this person. And in years past that may have been the case. Not this time… What surprised and delighted me was that I didn't respond. Rather, I just smiled and went on my way to deal with my daughter. Now I… Continue reading…
ADD and Authenticity: Did You Hear This?
Teri Sica of 95.9 WATD radio interviewed me last week for her show, Discovering Authenticity. We spoke generally about ADD and more specifically about ADD Coaching. It was really fun to do. I hope that you enjoy listening to it and find it informative, as well. As always, I appreciate your comments in whatever way you choose to send them (online or offline). 0
ADD- ADHD: Have You Forgotten How Much You Need This?
It has been quite some time since I have thought about Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs. It came to mind as I was thinking about Dr. Hallowell and his writings about the importance of connection in treating ADD. Then I started thinking about my own need to for connection. Recharging vs. Connecting I began questioning my need to connect with others two weeks ago, when I spent a wonderful weekend with old friends from my time… Continue reading…
Who Else Wants to be Productive?
Last week my daughter started 3 weeks of overnight camp. As I am self employed, caring for my daughter is one of the few activities that put boundaries around my work. If you have read any of my writing before, you know that I work hard at making values based decisions. And caring for my daughter is one of my highest priorities. So, when the reason for putting aside my work is… Continue reading…
ADD – ADHD: See How You Can Exit the Frustration Highway Quicker!
The other day my daughter and I were at Target shopping for her camp supplies. I had my list, and was fairly certain that a behemoth store like Target would have most of what was on my list. Frustration! So, imagine my surprise when a clerk told me that the store did not carry tooth brush holders or soap containers. I thought, “impossible Target must have these items!” So, I asked another clerk,… Continue reading…
What is “ADD-Like” Behavior?
An old friend recently presented me with a “business proposal” (see below). I decided, with his permission, to respond in a public forum because I think others will be interested in this discussion. …your references to ADD (while it’s your specialty) appear to be targeted at those already diagnosed. What about those cases undiagnosed, or activities in the workplace that could lead to ADD-like behaviors. I’m writing because i think there might be an opportunity… Continue reading…
Diet and ADD: How Can Eating Carbs Help?
While my expertise is in ADD, not in the complexities of nutrition or the chemistry of food, I have learned a fair amount about the effects of eating specific types of food on ADD symptoms. So, over the next few post, I will share what I know. While it may appear that I am equivocating, it is important to note that, while supported by some research, most of what is known about ADD and diet… Continue reading…
Not All Inspiration Needs To Lead To Perspiration
Got ideas? If you have ADD, chances are ideas flow fast and furious. And this ability to generate a wealth of ideas may be a tremendous asset for you. It may allow you to: think of multiple interesting solutions to problems. synthesize and interpret information in a unique way. envision many future paths. However, being able to generate so many ideas can become a hindrance to effectively following through on any one path. 0
Is Forgetfulness Getting in Your Way?
I Forgot. Whenever I catch myself saying, “I forgot,” then I remember. I remember that I shouldn’t rely on my brain to retain information and expect that I will be able to access it at precisely the moment I need it. Over time I have come to accept this. And I have worked hard to find a work around for my particular wiring. It is not about making excuses – it is about accepting what… Continue reading…
Knowledge Can Empower You
According Sir Francis Bacon, "knowledge is power." A few weeks ago I wrote about a free web based financial tool, Mint.com. It truly is an amazing tool in that it gives you tons of information. Using this tool you can view all of your financial accounts in one location. And they are updated instantaneously when you log into the site! The potential impact of this tool can be seen in the comment below. changed my… Continue reading…